Relationship (and love) is all about timing, right?
well, "Definitely, Maybe".
William Hayes is our almost generic 38 year old male: he has a good job in the big apple, a preteen daughter, and divorce papers delivered to his desk in the morning. As the movie begins, Will is fighting his way through the traffic of New York to pick up his daughter from school, while refusing to let the divorce ruin his mood. As he discovers that sex-ed class is given at school that day, he is bombarded by questions from his little girl on their way home. Now that she understands how sex works, the ultimate question arises,"How did you and mom get together? and (subsequently) fall apart?". After a mild protest, Will agrees to tell her the whole story from the very beginning. To add a bit of fun and twist, he decides to change the names of the main characters and challenges his daughter to figure out exactly who becomes her mother at the end.
Then he begins the process of recounting his relationship with women, all the way from the start, when he comes right out of college.
Wait.
Men talking about relationships..hmm.. didn't I just see
something like this not too long ago?..
Although both movies concern men about relatively the same age (college grads), "500 days of Summer" (500), in comparison, is a 'high school' account of the theme, while "Definitely, Maybe" (DM) is clearly more adult.
This supposedly mature appearance is the direct result of two things: striping away the aesthetics and building a gallery of interesting characters.
Gone are the architect preferred muted colours and pastel pencil sketches, the carefully sequenced time lines, the parallel frames of the washed out old home video of happy days in summer, the well arranged 'wishful thinking scenario' shown together with 'sad truth', and the ever so often cultural references. Granted, these elements are what made me watch '500' over and over again because it is pleasing to the eye from the view of a cinematographer. It's all about execution and technique, i.e. the packaging. Taking these things away you realize that you don't actually "know" anybody in '500'. You don't quite understand the attractions between the main characters but you don't question, since you are too busy admiring how they are shown on the screen.
"Definitely, Maybe" on the other hand, wants to answer precisely the same question: how does attraction work (and fail)? And as we know, it is never a one man (person)'s story. We are presented with three potential mothers, the conventional, pretty but somewhat boring on the surface 'Emily', the beautiful, smart and funny 'April', and the gorgeous, dangerous, sexy and equally witty 'Summer'. Will himself is a young democrat with a high political and career aspiration (read: to be elected president), while riding high on the campaign fever that led to Clinton's ascend to the White House. In the process of him finding out which one of the three 'fits' him best, we get to meet his 'arms-for-oil' roommate, his amazingly many (>2) and amazingly pretty (well above the average of an engineering school) female co-workers, his nervous, coffee demanding lineman, and the bright eyed, cool headed ten year old daughter. And let's not forget the utterly charming and cynical Professor Roth. These supporting characters are not complicated in their own right. But the sketches they form add layers and dimensions to the story. It is as much about Will's romantic endeavours as his painful yet comic process of finding his place in the real world. By comparison, the characters in 500 appeared pale, if not somewhat one-dimensional. They are products of someone's sketchbook and inherently lack the breathing, laughing abilities of real people.
On top of that, Adam Brooks is clearly a better writer for comedy. The dialogues and situations are fluid and well structured. The jokes, especially the political ones! are very funny. And often unexpected, we are also greeted by cerebral and amusing one liners. In fact, believe it or not, "500" actually copied a joke directly from DM! No wonder I thought a grown woman screaming 'penis' sounded corny. It's not nearly as funny as that coming out of the mouth of a 10 year old..
As a result, I enjoyed the movie very much although it is on a well investigated topic without the pretty packaging. The story and characters, along with the right casting and acting held it up. They actually made me overlook the soundtrack during the movie, which turns out to be just as nice but a bit less "cute" than that from "500"...